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Sexdate County Wicklow — the mature 45+ Garden of Ireland guide

Sexdate County Wicklow: how Bray, Greystones and the Wicklow Mountains work for mature 45+ Sex55 daters. Cross-county discretion via Dublin.

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Browse 149 mature 45+ sexdate profiles in Wicklow. Find mature singles open to mature sex dates and sexdating near you.

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Gypsie67

53 years · Bray

I'm looking for happiness and adventure. Not very hard would you think... Then how come I can't find anyone. Who's gonna give me a hand?

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Angelina

47 years · Wicklow

Attractive woman, with a rather easy going lifestyle but who misses something in her bed at night. I don't want a relationship, but I like…

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HornyMilf52

69 years · Greystones

Grandma loves sucking dick, and I do it very well and extremely good. Actually, I never had complaints about my sex, only my age is against…

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Pauline69

63 years · Bray

I'm not just a grandmother who just wants sex in bed, it's quite the contrary, this grandmother wants a sex date in the freedom of nature,…

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Marina

57 years · Bray

Hi young men, are there still young men out there that like to go to bed with an older lady? I am a single again woman and I do like sex…

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Sannex

63 years · Greystones

Here's proof that a grandma's super horny and I want to have sex as well as those younger girls you find here. There's a saying that older…

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SmileyGreta

47 years · Arklow

I am Greta, divorced, live with my teenage son, and I am glad of the company for the most part with him, as I have been divorced for a few…

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LovewithMarie

53 years · Greystones

Looking for new experiences!

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HotelDate

54 years · Bray

After a long week of work, there is just one thing I want. That is sex. I love to go to a hotel for a night and have some me-time. Maybe I…

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XXxena

48 years · Bray

Attention all men, here I am, Xena. I am a beautiful hot woman who feels like having sex. I regularly watch porn movies and that turns me…

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Robyn80

45 years · Bray

I am divorced, my ex was an alcoholic. He was very violent to me when drunk. But he is out of my life now. I am looking for a guy my own age…

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Eleanor

69 years · Wicklow

My name is Eleanor, the lady with the needs of a young girl! I can have sex all day. I love playing with myself and I am not afraid of…

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dirty_sweet

45 years · Bray

Come home from work to find my partner in the kitchen cooking. I smile, he comes over to me, bends me over the table and takes me from…

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Petronella

58 years · Blessington

I am married, yes, but my husband is impotent and after long talks he is finally allowing me to have sex with other men, preferably men from…

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Bethany67

58 years · Wicklow

Most people associate my job with being old and stuffy, but you are so wrong. Since my divorce I live my life to the full and constantly…

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SlySara

50 years · Arklow

I am looking for my soulmate, well, my sexual soulmate. The man I am destined to be with, who is sexually compatible with me. I know that…

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sweetpiecream

60 years · Bray

I am not here for love or marriage but what I am here for is someone to fill me up with their juices after a night of good sex. My favourite…

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BlondieLou

74 years · Wicklow

I'm a widow hoping to find a second chance at romance. Looking for a man my age or older. A man who's still interested in romance, sex, and…

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MoneyTalk

52 years · Bray

I am divorced and I have no ties, I can do my own thing when and where I want, I am a professional financial advisor, experienced in the…

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seekingsex

70 years · Bray

I am married but I am not able to get what I need, sexually, from my husband. I have a few things on my bucket list that I want to make a…

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sassysarah123

51 years · Wicklow

I am a hard-working, successful woman and I love to unwind with some yoga. My friends would say I am a cheerful and bubbly person!

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Marvelousmartha

52 years · Greystones

Hi there. I am a happy and considerate person who enjoys the company of most people. I love get to know new people and to make new friends.…

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kissmeplease67

58 years · Bray

My best attribute and my most sensitive parts are my boobs. I am hoping to find a man that can give them plenty of attention. I am looking…

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Classyolivia

68 years · Greystones

I can't recall the last time someone slapped my ass, spread my legs, bite my nipples, or just fucked me. I am a little tired of all the…

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simplyhelen

60 years · Bray

I love men who know what they want, but are also not afraid to take on new challenges. A man that's a risk-taker would be very exciting. So…

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sexysexywoman72

53 years · Bray

My husband wants us to have an open relationship so I joined this site for a few one night stands and to have my own love affair. I want to…

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bend-me-over

63 years · Bray

I like to dress up in skimpy, sexy outfits and have someone slowly remove them with their teeth. I have a kinky, sexual side and I am…

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BonniewithoutClyde

59 years · Wicklow

Thanks for taking your time and reading my profile! I am Bonnie, a married woman with children. I am very unhappy. My husband doesn't care…

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Sunalwaysshinesinjune

65 years · Greystones

I guess I have a busy lifestyle but I still would enjoy more. I am looking for a guy that would enjoy the company of an educated woman. We…

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BreakfastatTiffanys

51 years · Bray

I love my job but I need something to really stimulate me in my free time. The raunchier the better. I am an open book when it comes to sex.…

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DeonnaisLooking

47 years · Greystones

Living in a place like Stoneleigh has its benefits. Everybody knows you! However, it also has its downside. And that's actually the same…

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Jeesselouis

48 years · Bray

I have neen married for sometime and I guess the spark has disappeared. I am not leaving my husband though, let's get that straight. I am…

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orgasms-for-me

52 years · Arklow

Hello, I am Kelsey, and I am very out of my depth doing this. I am hoping to find a great man that wants to explore a variety of sexually…

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food-play-freaky

52 years · Wicklow

I like food-play, sexual games, and my favourite meal is a very sexy breakfast in bed with an open-minded man. Let me serve you right off my…

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Suck_on_these

55 years · Bray

I love to get my tits out, at every chance. I rarely wear knickers. I wear short dresses so guys can see my minge as go up stairs or…

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Redfordanger

68 years · Wicklow

Life is boring right now and I am looking for a buddy to have more interesting times with. Sometimes I think my life is straight out of the…

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SillyNell

56 years · Blessington

I'm in need of a freakish man. I want my entire body covered in whipped cream, with only my face visible. Then have him go down on me.…

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we-seeking-thrills

46 years · Arklow

Hi there, we are in a serious and committed relationship, but we feel that we need to find a sexy woman, with an adventurous imagination, to…

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DingDongDell

58 years · Arklow

Rattling around in a big house has never been my idea of fun. I have lots of friends and sometimes we do party. Not found anyone to match my…

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SexyPearlyWhites

67 years · Greystones

Who would have thought that retirement would be so much fun. My husband is younger so still working. I have so much free time that I have…

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SexyMilf

50 years · Greystones

Come on, guys, send me messages. I'm a sexy, fun, outgoing type of girl who's looking for her handsome Prince. I want to find the whole…

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sexually-adventurous-for-you

52 years · Wicklow

Hello, I am a confident and outgoing sort of woman, with a very high sex drive. I am hoping to find a sex partner who is looking for a…

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PrettyPumpkin

47 years · Blessington

With this newfound freedom that I have, I want to put my exploring heels on and see what the big wide world has to offer. I want to let my…

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Sexinpublic

60 years · Arklow

Well hello there you naughty men, I am Lisa. As you can probably tell from my photos, I love to be risky in public. The thought of getting…

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HoneyBuns

52 years · Bray

I recently started collecting toys, and have been adding a few for the opposite sex to my collection. I am looking for a naughty, kinky man,…

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rip-my-stockings

47 years · Blessington

I have a fun approach to all things in life, and that includes my sex life. I want a sexual partner who will try exotic positions with me,…

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LemonDrop

60 years · Arklow

Tell me what would you do if we are locked up alone in a bedroom? The answer to that will tell me a lot about you. I am here to explore, and…

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Angela04

48 years · Greystones

I hope it is not a problem that I am married. I am looking for someone who can be very discreet. I am not satisfied at home. My husband…

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DarlingLu

56 years · Bray

It's not easy being single and horny all the time! It's been a while since I've felt the touch of a real man! Can't be that hard to find…

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Ellen88

46 years · Newtownmountkennedy

I am ready for a man to take control of my body. I need someone who will make me cum back to back. Someone who will fuck me so hard that I…

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CallMeDarcy

48 years · Arklow

So gentlemen let's get straight to the point here. Do you want some hot, dirty fun? Do you want me to bounce my tits around in your face…

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Big-n-beautiful

50 years · Bray

I'm like a rose between two thorns. Work and home are good but I need a man to stimulate me. My toys need a break and I need a real dick.…

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letsgethappy

46 years · Arklow

I am a happy-go-lucky type of woman and I always seek the fun in any given situation. I am looking for a fun, exciting, special partner to…

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LucyLoo

46 years · Bray

I´m the outdoorsy type so any chance I get I am out there, that's why any chance I get I am horse riding. What I really love is the faster…

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HotMamaMag

53 years · Greystones

I'm looking for a good man who can give me love, affection, and some great sex! I'm still a hot lady with a lot to offer, even at nearly 50.…

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SexyCatWoman

57 years · Bray

I am a divorced woman, looking to start a new adventure. I miss the feeling of having a man up close, the smell, the taste. I am not looking…

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HoldyaTanya

51 years · Bray

Hey there, I am a Tanya and I am looking to get back in the dating game after a long divorce. I like guys who are fit and healthy and…

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never-too-old-to-play

77 years · Bray

Hello, I am a smiling, confident, older woman and my sex drive is still as high as it was in my teenage years. I want to arrange a casual,…

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shimmer_Yvette

49 years · Bray

Someone has to be seeking the same things. I'm just looking for a naughty man that wants to lick me non-stop until I tell him I'm satisfied.…

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Needachange

50 years · Greystones

Hello. I'm a lovely single lady hoping for a second chance at love. I've never done this before, so bear with me. My daughter has a family…

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MilfyMiranda

52 years · Bray

Miranda is my name, and fucking is my game..haha. Do you like that? Missed out all these years on great sex and a lot of it. so now I'm…

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Maturedsexy

52 years · Greystones

My name is Evie and I'm here to meet the perfect man for me. I work a lot and I don' have a lot of time for going out and meeting men.…

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Dellacious

51 years · Bray

Putting the feelers out there for a new fuck buddy. I only like to have one man at a time and I don't like to share, but I do not want to…

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SweetJay

51 years · Newtownmountkennedy

I am an outgoing woman and a good blend of traditional and modern values. I love singing, dancing, and music and going for long drives…

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LingerieOnFire

53 years · Greystones

I am a fun-loving girl, that takes life serious when I have to and have fun the rest of the time. I am looking for an easy-going,…

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HavingAGoodTime

57 years · Newtownmountkennedy

Looking for someone to enjoy the occasional movie, a cold beer, and good conversation. I like to laugh and have a good time. I’m looking for…

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DivorcedSurprise

45 years · Greystones

After my divorce, I started to find myself and appreciate myself more. I love my body. I play with myself a lot, and I have even got toys…

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BeauTrix

51 years · Greystones

I hate surrounding myself with negative energy. Helping others, and being kind, don’t cost us anything. If you are someone that cares about…

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Lovelyhilda

54 years · Bray

I like to go out and have fun, or just stay in and watch TV. I love socialising with friends and I like to cook nice meals for my family and…

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SweetIla

53 years · Bray

I'm married. I have lived a quiet/conservative sexual life, with no change, no experimentation or desire. I want to try things I've thought…

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KinkyClara

51 years · Arklow

If you love stockings and suspenders, high-heels, role-playing, kinky fun, fetishes, sex toys, anal, foreplay and oral, then send me a…

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LonelyNaomi

59 years · Rathdrum

I am not single but I do not live with my partner. We see each other about once a month since he is working away mostly. I am lonely and…

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NannyRose

63 years · Bray

I am a nanna to 3 cute munchkins whom I adore. I am retired so I look after them twice a week for my daughter. I volunteer at the local…

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LisaGreen

56 years · Wicklow

My ex could not handle that I am more successful and make more money than him. Honestly, I don't know why some men are like that. My next…

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DoMeDeidre

67 years · Bray

I am so bored. I can't even lie. My husband hasn't wanted to have sex for months because he is impotent. I still have no desire to stop…

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italian-fuck-please

53 years · Wicklow

Hello, I am convinced that it is my Italian blood that makes me have such a very high sex drive. I am not looking for a serious relationship…

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Come_get_me

52 years · Greystones

I love nature, bike rides, hiking and camping. If these fit into your description we would get on well. No need to wine and dine me either…

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KeepThatSmile

52 years · Blessington

I guess I want the entire package. I want a kind and caring man, that is able to turn naughty the minute the bedroom door closes. If that is…

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ByGrace

54 years · Arklow

When it comes to remembering birthdays, I am the worst at it. Could be at my age I am starting to forget things. But if you can deal with…

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Dare-Devil

50 years · Arklow

There's something about death that focuses our minds, once the clouds break. For me, it was a lightbulb moment and I need to have more.…

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tesstoplay

53 years · Bray

Hi, I am a successful, charming and kind woman, with a hugely passionate, sexual side. I am needing to find a man with desires for plenty of…

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LipStikDipStik

45 years · Greystones

I love being a girly girl. I like to look my best most of the time. Nothing beats getting all hot and sweaty, then getting dressed up and…

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newstartkelly

55 years · Arklow

I am looking for a truly special man to share the fun moments in my life with. I love spending time outdoors, with friends having drinks,…

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HiBoys

56 years · Bray

Ahoy there shipmates. I love dressing up in different uniforms. Its kinda sexy. I love wearing stockings and suspenders underneath. My…

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Martha71

54 years · Bray

I have been divorced for a good while now and I haven't dated since. I am not looking for a long-term relationship and my friend told me…

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GrannyMILF

56 years · Wicklow

I am a widower, have 3 grown-up children, and now also grandkids too. I babysit them sometimes, which I love. I am mainly retired, but I do…

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AlexiStar

50 years · Greystones

My husband and I are like chalk and cheese, he likes black, I like white and it is the same with our sex life, I love sex, and he is not…

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Shaved

64 years · Bray

I may be old but I’m so very horny! I have a partner and he doesn’t know that I am on here and I intend to keep it that way. I love dressing…

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Flexylexy

51 years · Bray

Hello. I'm widowed and I have a son at home. We do okay by ourselves but it would be nice to have a man around the house again. My husband…

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Gwennie

54 years · Greystones

I have a lot on my mind and a lot to share but not going to bare it all for everyone to see. If you are curious to know what I am about, hit…

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Saucystace

52 years · Arklow

I gave up on dating a long time ago and decided that as long as my sex life wasn't affected that I wouldn't be a desperate and needy woman…

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Rollingplay

49 years · Greystones

What I whisper to you during sex, depends on which role I am in. It could also depend on what you ask me to whisper. So, if you want to call…

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Shyaway

53 years · Bray

Never thought I would be looking for any action in a place like this. But then I am a little introverted at times. Not all the time. Oh,…

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TakingChancers

56 years · Bray

I am an animal lover and I say that only because should you make it to my bedroom you will have to contend with hair. No, my pussy is…

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Body2die4

53 years · Bray

As you can see, I am fortunate to have a nice body and I love having my body massaged with baby oil. I love being made to get on all fours,…

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Artistic_champ

49 years · Wicklow

Hello boys! I am a lady who values her business more than anything else. I've been working my ass off for as long as I can remember. Due…

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GolfergirlXO

50 years · Bray

I'm a lover of the outdoors and all things sporty, whether it's perfecting my swing on the green or casting a line into the water. When I'm…

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Screamingkat

54 years · Blessington

I am vocal when I fuck, love having my man finger my pussy as I suck him off until he cums for me. That is just the foreplay fun, that I…

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Colatonic

53 years · Wicklow

Naughty but nice, and everything in-between. Life is all about living and I am here doing just that. I love conversations, laughs, and good…

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Camper_babe

46 years · Arklow

Since I work from home, my lifestyle is very solitary and meeting people is only online so it is natural that I reach out online to find a…

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Frizzhead

45 years · Bray

I have always wanted to work from home because it feels great not having to go to work on those cold, early mornings - plus I don't really…

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littlemei

46 years · Wicklow

Hello, I'm Mei! I end up using these kinds of sites for about a week or so and then forgetting about them but I have a feeling I'm in this…

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Delacruz

49 years · Bray

I'm a real people person and I love to make new friends. My job means I do that quite a lot but I don't like to mix business and pleasure.…

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Dr_cas

63 years · Bray

Hello! Never married and have no kids I think I am entering my twilight years lol and now I am scrambling to find myself a companion. I am…

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cccheryl

49 years · Wicklow

You may look at my sweet innocent face and think that I'm here for love, well... if you thought that. You'd be wrong. I'm open to the idea…

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Gorgeous&Smart

50 years · Greystones

Been married for many years but decided to cool it off as we seem to be drifting apart. He is wanting to travel. And I’m wanting to enjoy…

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Tipsy247

54 years · Bray

Nothing I enjoy more than settling down at the end of a hard day with a nice glass of wine, or a Malibu and coke... It depends on how hard…

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MarriedMrs

51 years · Greystones

Love is fluid and shouldn’t be just stagnant in one place. Is what I keep telling myself. But really I’m just greedy. I love good male…

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LeftHandedLou

48 years · Bray

Recently just got divorced but my ex still wants me and sometimes turns up at my place randomly, stalks me and hacks my accounts. Maybe my…

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PerfectSmile

45 years · Bray

I embraced the saying life begins at 40, and now I'm adding that life begins when you're divorced! I know what I don't want in a…

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MarriedLife

64 years · Bray

I can’t think of anything more awkward than being on a dating site. But here I am. I’m married with four children, but life seems to have…

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MistressCurve

51 years · Wicklow

My name is Mistress Curve and that is how you will refer to me at all times. I don't deal with attitude, needy men, disobedience, or…

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LetsDoTheDirty

54 years · Greystones

I have been married for many years and have no intention of leaving my husband However after many years without sex due to his E.D., I am…

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Mistresspunk

50 years · Bray

I am fit, sporty and I have a lot of stamina. I am fed up with men playing games and thinking they can treat me how they want to So I'm…

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AllTooTrue

54 years · Greystones

My husband doesn't know what I know and he doesn't know what I'm going to do next! He left his phone unlocked and left it open with a…

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Letsdothemaths

55 years · Bray

I might be an accountant but I am far from the stereotypical boring woman! I love rock climbing and skiing holidays for a start, and there…

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Cheekyhousewife78

48 years · Arklow

I've always been the kind of woman that gets bored very, very easily! If my mind and body aren't being stimulated, my mind always ends up…

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BadGirlBri

51 years · Wicklow

I’ve always been called Xena the warrior princess for some reason. Maybe it’s my sexy physique. :) I’m not one for love and romance. But…

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Make-me-a-Mistress

61 years · Bray

Dreams of becoming a mistress have lead me to here. I have a husband and we have a normal ok life. But I want more than just ok. I need…

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SeekingMore

51 years · Wicklow

My partner and I are looking to open our relationship to explore different fetishes and fantasies. We enjoy watching porn together or a…

Why mature 45+ sexdating works in County Wicklow

Wicklow works for mature sexdating because the affluent professional 45+ class is genuinely large, the country-house hotel layer is among the best in Ireland, and the Dublin overlap means residents lead two-zone lives that the platform can leverage. The professional pool concentrates in Bray (population 33,000), Greystones (20,000), Arklow (14,000), Wicklow town (10,000), Newtownmountkennedy, Kilcoole, Delgany, Rathdrum, Tinahely and the rural hill belt.

The Sex55 platform amplifies this in three ways. First, the affluent commuter belt (Greystones-Delgany-Newtownmountkennedy) is unusually digitally fluent and Sex55-active for its size. Second, the country-house hotel cluster — Powerscourt Hotel Resort & Spa, Druids Glen Hotel, BrookLodge Macreddin — gives discreet-meet venues that would attract daters from any county. Third, Dublin city centre is 30-60 minutes from anywhere in Wicklow.

The corollary: Wicklow is genuinely well-served. The strategic question is venue choice rather than pool size — get the venue right and the rest follows.

Scenery in Wicklow

How County Wicklow clusters for mature dating

Bray (the northern anchor). Population around 33,000, the largest town. The Bray Head, the Esplanade, the DART connection to Dublin. The Royal Hotel and the Esplanade Hotel handle in-town meets. Bray’s complication: large enough to have decent venues, small enough that local visibility is real, especially in the central Quinsboro Road area. Many Bray-resident daters cross to Dublin (DART 30 minutes) for the absolute-discretion option.

Greystones and Delgany (the affluent commuter coast). Population around 20,000 (Greystones) plus Delgany. Affluent-professional concentration unmatched outside south Dublin and the most digitally Sex55-active Wicklow sub-pool. The Charlesland Golf area and the Greystones harbour. The hotel infrastructure is thin in town itself — most Greystones daters use Druids Glen (10 minutes south at Newtownmountkennedy) or cross to Dublin.

Newtownmountkennedy and the Druids Glen cluster. Druids Glen Hotel is a destination resort hotel on the M11 — golf, spa, weekday-afternoon discretion, mature-coded clientele. Druids Glen is one of the strongest discreet-meet venues in Leinster and pulls daters from Greystones, Bray, north Wexford and south Dublin.

Powerscourt and Enniskerry. Enniskerry village and Powerscourt Hotel Resort & Spa at the gates of Powerscourt Estate. The hotel is an Autograph Collection 5-star property — destination, golf, spa, gardens, mature-and-international clientele, weekday-afternoon discretion. Powerscourt is the iconic upmarket discreet-meet venue in Wicklow.

Wicklow town and the central east. Population around 10,000. The Bridge Tavern and the central hotels. Smaller pool, daters often use Druids Glen (15 minutes north) or Brooklodge (30 minutes inland) for cross-town anonymity.

Macreddin and the inland mountains. BrookLodge Macreddin at Aughrim is the inland country-house option — 5-star spa-and-restaurant resort, weekday-afternoon discretion, pulls daters from across Wicklow and Wexford. The Macreddin Village setting is genuinely remote — that’s the appeal.

Arklow and the south coast. Arklow population around 14,000, the south-coast hub on the M11. Smaller pool, mostly using Brooklodge or crossing into Wexford (Gorey 25 minutes via M11) for meetings.

Rathdrum, Avoca and the Vale. Rathdrum (Parnell heritage), Avoca village, the Vale of Avoca — small pool, scenic geography, used mostly for second dates and as part of broader Wicklow Mountains touring.

The cross-county discretion strategy

Wicklow’s killer asset is the country-house hotel layer combined with Dublin proximity. Powerscourt, Druids Glen and BrookLodge each offer destination-resort discretion that absorbs visibility — a couple meeting at any of these on a Wednesday afternoon is operationally invisible.

The Dublin move is the secondary tier. Dublin city centre is 30-60 minutes from anywhere in Wicklow via the M11 / DART. Bray-resident daters use Dublin’s hotel layer (The Westbury, The Shelbourne, The Wilder, The Marker) for the absolute-anonymity meet — Dublin is large enough that a Wicklow professional is invisible.

The Wexford move covers south Wicklow. Arklow-area and Aughrim-area daters use Marlfield House Gorey and the Wexford hotel layer (25-45 minutes south via M11). Cross-county Wicklow-Wexford meets are common.

The further refinement: weekday afternoons (3pm-6pm) at Powerscourt, Druids Glen and BrookLodge are heavily corporate-and-leisure mixed. Couples having a quiet bar drink read as utterly unremarkable. The destination-resort scale of these venues absorbs visibility in a way that small-town Wicklow hotels cannot.

How transport shapes County Wicklow’s mature dating geography

Wicklow’s transport infrastructure is exceptional. The Transport for Ireland (TFI) journey planner covers public transport. Strategic points:

  • M11 / N11 — Dublin to Wexford via Bray, Greystones, Wicklow town, Arklow. The major motorway spine.
  • DART — Bray and Greystones are on the DART line into central Dublin (30-50 minutes). This is transformative for north Wicklow mature dating.
  • R755 / R752 / R754 — internal mountain roads connecting Wicklow town with Glendalough, Rathdrum, Aughrim. Scenic but slow.
  • N81 — Dublin to Tullow (Carlow) via Blessington and west Wicklow.
  • Iarnród Éireann Dublin-Rosslare line stops at Bray, Greystones, Wicklow, Rathdrum, Arklow. Useful for cross-county and Dublin meets.

For mature daters using cross-county discretion strategically, the move is to use one country-house hotel (Powerscourt, Druids Glen or BrookLodge depending on sub-county) plus one Dublin city-centre option for absolute-anonymity meets.

Realistic Sex55 numbers for County Wicklow

A mature 45+ Wicklow-based Sex55 user who messages 5-7 well-chosen profiles per week typically lands one first meet per 7-10 days. The county pool is large (155,000+), the Dublin overlap effectively doubles it, and the affluent professional density is high.

Conversion from first meet to repeat meet runs around 42-46% — among the highest in Ireland outside Dublin and Cork city. The country-house venue layer plus the affluent demographic produce strong commitment patterns.

If you’re 3+ weeks active without a first meet, the issue is almost always the profile. Read our do’s and don’ts guide for the audit framework.

Scenery in Wicklow

Three County Wicklow-specific dynamics

The Greystones-Delgany affluent professional cluster. This corridor has Ireland’s highest concentration of senior corporate professionals outside south Dublin — finance, tech, legal, healthcare. The local social network is intense (everyone is on the same DART, the same Charlesland golf, the same Holywell development). Cross-Greystones first meets are essentially impossible without using Druids Glen or Dublin.

The country-house cluster is genuinely unique. The combination of Powerscourt, Druids Glen and BrookLodge — three destination-resort hotels within 60 minutes of each other — has no equivalent anywhere else in Ireland. Mature daters specifically choose Wicklow as their dating geography because of these venues, even if they live elsewhere.

The Dublin commuter overlap is asymmetric. Many Wicklow professionals work in Dublin and treat Dublin as their default discretion meet — easier than meeting locally. But many Dublin-side professionals come to Wicklow for the country-house meet — easier than meeting on home turf. The result: Powerscourt and Druids Glen on a Wednesday afternoon contain a mix of Wicklow and Dublin daters, both groups using the venue for cross-county anonymity.

How County Wicklow messaging actually works

Wicklow mature daters reply at a brisk professional pace — typically 3-10 hours weekday evenings. The messaging style rewards specificity around the country-house logic: “Tuesday afternoon at Druids Glen, or would Powerscourt suit better?” demonstrates you understand the score and signals the right end of the market. Naming a specific venue, day and time outperforms generic openers.

The cultural note: Wicklow messaging blends Dublin directness with country-house refinement. Mature Wicklow daters are time-poor, professional, and appreciate clear logistics. The Greystones-Delgany pool messages with particular efficiency.

Second-date ideas for mature County Wicklow couples

Once past the first hotel-bar meet, Wicklow’s geography is world-class for second dates. Powerscourt Estate gardens and the waterfall handle the iconic day-out. Glendalough and the upper-lake walk handle the cultural-historical day. The Wicklow Way (sections like Knockree to Glencree, or the Glenmalure valley) handle the longer-walk-and-pub day. Avoca village and the Meeting of the Waters for the off-tourist-track lyrical option. Bray Head walk and Greystones cliff walk for the coastal-and-cake option.

For dinner, Powerscourt Hotel, Druids Glen and BrookLodge (the Strawberry Tree restaurant) handle the destination upmarket evening. The Hungry Monk in Greystones, Mickey Finn’s in Redcross and Pigeon House in Delgany handle the upmarket-casual.

Seasonal patterns on Sex55 for County Wicklow

Wicklow’s Sex55 activity tracks Dublin’s rhythm. January-February is the strongest signup peak. March-June is the active phase — Wicklow Mountains and gardens at their best for second-date geography. Summer dips slightly as commuter-belt families take school-holiday breaks. September-November is a strong second peak — autumn colour in the mountains, Powerscourt gardens at peak. December slows for school-holiday and family-Christmas reasons.

Scenery in Wicklow

Profile optimization for County Wicklow mature daters

Three things move the needle. First, country-house and outdoor-coded photos (Wicklow Way, Powerscourt grounds, garden, dog-walks) outperform suburban interior selfies — the Wicklow mature pool reads outdoor lifestyle as authenticity. Second, signal cross-county flexibility — “happy to meet Wicklow or Dublin city centre” expands reach. Third, avoid DART-station-coded photos that geo-locate you to Bray or Greystones instantly.

Other County Wicklow resources

For county-wide visitor information, Visit Wicklow covers the Garden of Ireland. For transport, TFI and Iarnród Éireann handle the public side, with the DART the operational spine for north Wicklow. For Ireland-wide profile browsing beyond Wicklow, our Ireland mature dating directory covers all 26 counties. Pair this Wicklow regional view with our Dublin, Wexford and Carlow guides for the full Greater Dublin and South-East cross-county picture mature daters here actually use.

Alongside Sex55, you can also try 18date.net for 18+ sex dating, complete with its own County Wicklow page. See Sexdate Iowa for more.